Rickkita's Inspiring Journey as a Student Parent Advocate

By: Mbali Khuzwayo

Rickkita's journey is a testament to determination and the power of having a strong support system. As a mother of three and a recent graduate with both a Bachelor's and Master's in Social Work from Norfolk State University, she knows firsthand the challenges of balancing education and parenthood. Her story is not just about earning a degree, it's about overcoming adversity, going against stereotypes and inspiring others to pursue their dreams no matter the circumstances.

Rickkita shares the highs and lows of her 10-year academic journey, the undying support of her family and her hopes for the future — all while encouraging student parents to realize their potential and redefine what success looks like.

Where it all started

"Hi, I’m Rickkita, a Student Parent Advocacy Alliance member and a 2022 FamilyU Cohort fellow at Norfolk State University. I’m a Virginia Beach native and a mom of three amazing boys: Rashawn, who is 15 and a gamer; Andre, who is 14 and loves to sing; and Kaizen, who is 19 months old and loves music."

Rickkita’s story is one of resilience and inspiration, navigating her college journey that began over a decade ago. "My college journey started when I decided to go back to school as a single mom with two small children in tow. I was apprehensive about returning because I felt like all the odds were stacked against me, given my circumstances and having recently lost a job due to the recession. I had every reason to quit before I even started," she says.

Yet, quitting was never an option, as her two young boys became her greatest motivation. "It was important for me to set an example not only for my children but also for the generations before and after me, proving that even with the odds against you, you can still achieve your degree."

Rickkita pushed through those first three years to earn her Associate's degree in Business but took a four-year pause to pursue a career in sales. However, her aspirations didn't end there. "I decided I wanted more for myself and my children, so I enrolled in school to pursue my BSW in the middle of the pandemic. Those three years transformed me through the boards I joined, the knowledge I gained, and the leadership skills I developed. This was my favorite part of my college experience: gaining mentorship, building lifelong friendships, and being a part of some great organizations!"

The pillars of strength

"Having a supportive village through my family was the most impactful part of my educational journey," Rickkita recalls. Her mother, who had raised her as a single parent, became her biggest supporter. "As a child, my mom would always say, 'You can be anything you want to be as long as you put your mind to it.' Those words stayed with me throughout my 10-year educational journey, and whenever I wanted to quit, her voice reminded me to keep going."

Rickkita shares how her mother and sister stepped up in a way that made it possible for her to work and attend school without worrying about who would watch her children or the financial burden of childcare. They took on a parental role in her sons’ lives, ensuring that Rickkita focused on her studies and work. "Without their support, obtaining my degree might not have been possible."

Making big moves

"Now that I have graduated with my Master's in Social Work, I am currently in a career that I love as a Mental Health Clinical Supervisor and Therapist," Rickkita proudly says. She also shares the growth of her nonprofit, Sisters Healing Sisters Inc., saying, "I am able to competently educate and deliver our resources to our clients through our outreach efforts."

Rickkita's accomplishments challenge the stigma often associated with single mothers. "I am doing something that I never imagined doing at the start of my academic journey – helping to eliminate the stigma that single moms have to be placed in a box." She has inspired her sons to aim high, and her eldest, Rashawn, has already picked his top schools and planned out his career.

To parents considering returning to school, Rickkita's advice is simple and powerful: "DO IT. You can change the trajectory of your life and your children by making that move."

Looking forward and ahead

Rickkita is not stopping with her current achievements. "In the future, I plan to open a transitional home for women and children. With my education and experience behind me, I know I will do it!"

A reminder to stakeholders and higher ed leaders

"Stakeholders and higher ed leaders, it is so important to pour back into your students and student parents," Rickkita urges. "Bringing awareness to student parents on your campuses and in your boardrooms helps student parents know that we have a seat at these tables too."

Reflecting on her journey, Rickkita shares the most valuable lesson she has learned: “IT CAN BE DONE!” "My children will forever be the fuel that drives me, and I am thankful that they helped me to get here."

Inspired by Rickkita's story? Join us in supporting student parents like her by getting involved with Generation Hope. Whether you’re interested in volunteering, donating, or advocating for student parent-friendly policies, there’s a way for you to make a difference. Get involved today and be part of the change!